Why Every Man Need to Consider Older Women For A Wife

Don’t get it twisted. Love is not excluded. Obviously, most young men feel more comfortable dating a pretty young damsel. Well it is not a bad thing. But here are some reasons to start dating older women. Read and lets hear your thought.

 

1. You can talk to her

You can chat with girls but you can really talk with a woman. You might find it cute and engaging to speak with a younger woman about your mutual interests and this and that, but older women are more likely to be true and intelligent conversationalists. She’s been through more, has had more time to learn various things and can match wits with you in almost any conversation.
Even if you don’t enter the relationship with the goal of having intelligent talks in mind, you’ll likely come for her hot body and stay for the late night talks about opinions and life. Relationships need to be based on more than good sex and a pretty face to work, and older women offer that possibly missing component of connection to you.

 

2. They know how to work with what they’ve got

 

You see a beautiful girl and she has a beautiful dress on. The next day she’s wearing a gorgeous sundress that shows of her legs. the day after that, a body-hugging t-shirt and short shorts. Every day she looks stunning – but it’s not because of what she’s wearing. She’s naturally beautiful and she doesn’t have to put a lot of effort into it.
Older women have been slightly touched by age and they can’t naturally compete with the thin and sleek, effortless frame of a younger woman most of the time. This means they put more effort into their appearance and know what they need to do in order to look good. They’re also willing to put in that extra effort in order to please their younger men.

3. They’re likely career oriented

 

Older women aren’t always career-focused, but many happen to be. some older woman are more akin to a housewife, but many middle-aged females in this day and age are taking advantage of their power as women – power they likely fought for, perhaps in the 70’s and 80’s.
Dating an older woman typically means that she’s got herself figured out. Younger women may be distracted and puzzled by their true aspirations, and you can get lost while she tries to find herself – you may not be part of her life plan in the end. An older woman that already has her path laid out, however, knows exactly where you fit into her world.

4. It’s a learning experience

 

Part of the excitement in relationships is learning how you work together, and that is definitely present in relationships with older women. If you’ve never been with an older woman before, figuring out your dynamic with each other is something that takes some time and practice.
This might seem like work, but the effort you put into the relationship dictates what you get in return. Exploring your boundaries and understanding the differences between the two of you, both probably in separate age brackets, is a learning experience that you can reflect on in future relationships – unless your new mate happens to be your one and only after all.

5. She’s comfortable in her own skin

 

Younger women are often insecure. you see this in their appearance, their atkit ;)udes – it practically wafts off of some of them like a scent. There are confident younger women, yes, but many are going through a sort of identity crisis. It’s not something to blame them for – did you have yourself all figured out at 23? If you’re currently in that age group, do you?
If you want to avoid the stress and strife, older woman are often more secure with themselves. They understand who they are, why their personalities are the way they are and where they’re going in life. Some older women are insecure about the aging process, but many have accepted that it’s going to happen, so why not embrace it?

6. They want to be a true couple with you

 

Maybe it’s because of an enhanced familial instinct, but older women are more likely to put effort into making the two of you a team instead of something insignificant. When you become a couple, you really become a true duo together. this might not be what you’re looking for if you just want to have some fun with a cougar sometime, but having this kind of relationship experience is definitely worth it.
If you break up and go on to date younger women again, you now have an inside look at where her head will be at in ten or twenty years. To date an older woman is to truly understand what women are looking for as relationships progress; an experience you can use to your advantage down the road.

7. They appreciate you

 

Many older women don’t actively try to date younger men. why? Society has sort of trained them into thinking they can’t get a younger guy. sure, you have the occasional mrs. robinson type, but most older women have been told that younger men aren’t into them – guys want someone with a young mind and body, and that simply isn’t them anymore.
This means that approaching an older woman will make her appreciate you more. Don’t take this to mean that they’ll fall all over themselves to keep you – older women aren’t stupid. They know when you’re trying to experiment and when you’re trying to actually be with them. They might enjoy both attempts, but they’ll definitely appreciate the latter more than thinking you see them as some sort of fetish.

8. They’re more zen

 

Younger women are highly emotional creatures. They haven’t matured to a point where they have a very good handle on their emotions, so this can be really overwhelming to you who is more subdued. This emotional turmoil gets better with age, but why wait for a younger girlfriend to get more mature when you could simply date an older woman?
With age comes experience – a common theme in reasons to date an older woman. she’s more aware of her emotions and knows how to handle them. She’s also been in other relationships and has had fights before. With each one, she’s learned lessons that will only better her relationship with you, namely that throwing tantrums and screaming her lungs out is childish and doesn’t actually help a situation.